Norwegian men dating
I found out that the Norwegian art of seduction is based on three basic principles. In any setting (a metro, a party, a bar) a man or a woman will look at you directly in the eyes for several seconds.
You might think, like me, that this guy is looking at you in a strange way. NO he is trying to seduce you with his hypnotising long eye-contact. Men will rarely do more than that in their part of the Norwegian seduction process.
If you are a Scandinavian woman you will look back, with a wink (? The rest seems to be the woman’s job (see principle number 2: inversion of roles).
The issue here is that such subtle signs of interest from men are completely invisible to foreign women’s eyes as we are used to heavy flirting and seeing big signs of 2 meters by 4 made by men especially for us. If so go directly to principle number three: alcohol.
But Norwegians as other Northern peoples like Britts, Danes, Swedes, Finns and Russians drink really a lot.
A (drunk) Dane once told me that being half drunk is a waste of money. So this is not about drinking a few glasses, this is about getting smashed drunk, so much that you don’t remember what happened, that you felt so inhibited that you were not even yourself anymore and that it felt great.
Being used to be seduced for weeks and months by men, with flowers and travels and dreams come true? So second conclusion: Norwegian women are fearless.Some men actually like the chasing part, in our part of the world it is that which is called seduction.In more machist societies like France or Italy, such open flirting from a woman will be seen as an invitation for all the men in the neighboorhood.w=720&h=324 720w, https://afroginthefjord.files.wordpress.com/2013/06/seduction-2-2.jpg? w=1440&h=648 1440w, https://afroginthefjord.files.wordpress.com/2013/06/seduction-2-2.jpg? w=150&h=68 150w, https://afroginthefjord.files.wordpress.com/2013/06/seduction-2-2.jpg? w=300&h=135 300w, https://afroginthefjord.files.wordpress.com/2013/06/seduction-2-2.jpg? w=768&h=346 768w, https://afroginthefjord.files.wordpress.com/2013/06/seduction-2-2.jpg? w=1024&h=461 1024w" sizes="(max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px" / You might ask yourself when seeing this title: is there really anything to say about seduction in Norway? In Italy one could write about the casanovas and the sexy brunettes agreeing with langourious eyes and loud conversations, in France it would be the born-seductors and the classy and snoby Parisian women teasing men with their red lipstick and long cigarettes. Yes the Norwegian people also have some codes and mysteries surrounding seduction, and they will all be revealed to you now!As a disclaimer I must say they are probably not all revealed here, just those I’ve managed to catch despite poor Norwegian language skills and many cultural misunderstandings.